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How do you know if the person is the one?

Name: How do you know if the person is the one?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:42.847070
Duration: 8 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White asking "How do you know if the person is the one?" The speaker rejects the idea of a single perfect soulmate…

7 Dec 2025 · 0 min

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A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White asking "How do you know if the person is the one?" The speaker rejects the idea of a single perfect soulmate, suggests there can be multiple "ones," claims your best friend may be your soulmate, and emphasizes finding someone you can grow with because divergent life trajectories can cause relationships to split.

It is what it is that. How do you know if the person is the one? Well, I think it's important to understand that there can be multiple ones in your life.
And to be honest with you, your best friend is probably your soulmate.
Yeah. So I just think it's important to find someone that you can grow with because you're going to be consistently evolving. And there are moments where it's like, oh, I. I really like this person right now. But, like, the thing is, like, if you're meeting and you guys align at a certain point, if you have a different trajectory than he does, you guys will completely diverge. Right. So it's. I think, like, I think that thinking about.
The One actually can really hurt us because it makes these guys like, we put all of our kind of eggs in a basket. Because this is supposed to be, quote, unquote, the one. No shade. Girl, you're the one. He's not. There's no guy that's the one. You're the one. Yeah. And so I just want to offer that to you if you. If you are thinking like, oh, my God, there's only one guy that is the one for me. No, girl, that's scarcity mindset.