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How do you know when a white guy is interested in getting to know you?

Name: How do you know when a white guy is interested in getting to know you?
Uploaded: 2024-03-15T12:54:12+00:00
Duration: 36 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Anwar White breaks down how to spot the difference between genuine interest and fetishizing in interracial dating. Compliments about your hair are fine…

15 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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Anwar White breaks down how to spot the difference between genuine interest and fetishizing in interracial dating. Compliments about your hair are fine, but fixating on skin tone, body parts, smell, or "contrast" are red flags. He shares uncomfortable encounters from Germany where men made comments like "your skin smells different."

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Someone asked about, how do you know a white man isn't fetishizing you but actually wants to get you to know you? A lot of white guys will actually talk about your hair. In my experience. That's not a fetishization. If he's talking about your skin or the contrast, no. If he's talking about body parts, no. Yeah, girl. I was in. I was living in Germany, and there was some guys that were like, your skin is feeling different. It's like this Buffalo Bill, Silence of the Lambs bullshit. Girl. I had to get it in and then leave immediately and block them.
Or they'll be looking at doing this girl doing that contrast tee. Mm. Mm. Know that one guy was like, your skin smells different. I was like, maybe because I didn't shower today, but like that stuff. Body, skin, contrast. No.
Yeah.