Anwar White explains how Black women can recognize when white men are interested. His main signal: if a white guy talks with you for more than two or three minutes, he's probably into you. He suggests Black women may need to initiate and close the conversation themselves.
Okay. User 112 said, Girl, how can I pull a white man? Well, first of all, don't pull anyone. Yeah.
You want to radiate. What do you mean? I mean that. Well, here's the thing. White guys aren't going to come up to you and, like, spit game. So you probably will have to start the conversation, girl. You probably will have to close the deal, right? Because these guys will friend you to death. And you think, oh, my God, he's, like, really nice guy. If a white guy is talking to you for more than two or three minutes, girl, he's into you. Please understand that. And if you don't believe me, I want you to think about the conversations that you've had outside of your professional world where you've had conversations more than three minutes with a white guy. Probably not many.
It's because the guys that do are into you, girl. So you're gonna have to close it up, wrap it up, get the numbers. This is one of the things that I'm helping my clients do right now as we really get out there and talk to these men, honey, and get. And get our guys.