Single-speaker YouTube monologue (creator: Anwar White) advising listeners to "let go" of masculine energy by asking for help and delegating tasks. The speaker gives concrete, colloquial examples—ask strangers to push elevator buttons, hand items in a grocery store, request hotel service, and hire a housekeeper—framing the feminine as "being" rather than "doing" and encouraging efficiency and boundary-setting. The tone is direct, informal, and prescriptive.
Diana said, how do we let go of our masculine energy? By realizing that you don't have to do it yourself and you have to just ask for help. Like me and I. This is what I want y' all to do. I want you to ask everybody to do things for you. That's what the white girls are doing, so I want you to do it too.
When you get an elevator, ask people to push that button for you. When you're in the grocery store, ask people to hand things for you. When you go to. Even like when you go to a hotel or whatever, ask for a glass of water, girl, you gotta start asking for people to do things for you. The masculine is about doing. The feminine is about being. Yeah, what is it? What, what is this mean as well? It means also like, you know, some of y' all are high earning individuals and you still on your hands and knees every Saturday morning like we're nine years old. Cleaning the house up and down, girl. Get a housekeeper.
Costs a couple hundred dollars a week, girl.
If you do it weekly, get a house cleaner, have them clean your house. Doesn't make you less black, honey. Makes you smart and efficient and effective. Yeah. So I want to offer that to you.