Transcript of a short YouTube monologue (advice) where a speaker answers a listener’s question about making a male partner respond to jealousy from a female friend. The speaker recommends expressing feelings vulnerably to activate the partner’s protective/masculine instincts rather than issuing demands, and warns that direct commands can backfire.
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Okay. GRA. Said. Hey, I have a question. My man's female friend tries to make me jealous, but he doesn't. He doesn't what? Grl. He doesn't see it. What should I do? You can't tell a guy what he should or should not think. The gag is this is how you get guys to do things that you want.
You just let him know, like how it's making you feel.
Hey, I. I really wanted to let you know that I really love the fact that you have such. Such a great friend group. I will let you know that I am feeling a little bit uncomfortable with Sharon.
And, yeah, I just for me, just let me know if she's around. I probably won't attend just because she's making me feel really uncomfortable right now.
Right. So now he's got to figure out, why am I saying this? This is why I'm always talking about vulnerability. Ladies, you got to share your feelings with him because that's going to activate his masculine. Now he's got to figure out, how can I protect my girl? She's not feeling good. I got to make her feel good. And now he's going to do what needs to be done. Yeah, but if you're going to tell him, yeah, don't hang out with her anymore. Literally, what you're going to do is activate his testosterone, which is going to be. Is going to make him want to fight and defend, and he's going to go ten toes down on staying with saying friends with Sharon. Right. No, I feel uncomfortable. I don't feel really safe. Yeah.
