Short monologue (YouTube clip) advising against trying to 'make' a man miss you; speaker argues that asking that question signals loss of personal power and that a right partner should already miss you. Includes anecdote about a client whose partner energetically pursues her.
Someone asked, how do I make a man miss me?
I think that that is the wrong question to ask. Because.
When. When I hear a question like that, it means that you've lost your power. That means that you're prioritizing his feelings more than yours. You shouldn't have to make a man miss you.
He should already miss you.
The fact that you feel like you have to do that lets me know that he's not feeling you as he should. So he's probably not your person.
Like, as someone who gets women into relate two to three women into relationships every week, do you know what it looks like? One of my clients just told me.
Who just got into a relationship last week. This man doesn't play about me. That's what she told me, verbatim, word for word. You gonna have to fight them off with a stick.
You know when you were growing up for the girls who had siblings and you had, like, a little sister or a little brother that would follow you everywhere that you went, you're like, oh, my God, you're so annoying. And then, like, you would ignore them or a cousin that was like that because they were always talking to you, always wanting you to do whatever with you. That's how these men are, girl. That are. That are your guys. Yeah. So if you have to try to make him miss you, he's not your man.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
