Anwar White advises against meeting men during worship itself. Instead, volunteer at church to find men actually living their faith. Watch out for sheltered social skills, patriarchal attitudes, and misogyny, and don't settle for boring just because someone seems stable.
Okay. Someone said meeting men in the church.
So how do I meet men in the church? So I'm always. I'm of the opinion that.
You don't want to. Where you pray.
No shade. No shade.
No. What I actually think in a more serious.
Way is I actually think. And this is. I want you to focus on volunteering.
I want you to focus on volunteering because those are the men that are living the word and not just being seen.
Okay?
So.
This is important.
You know, churchmen oftentimes are the worst.
Don't let the fact that they go to a certain place on Sunday every week think that they are.
Oh.
Okay. Oh. Your live is not eligible for recommendation restricted in search results because your live does not comply with the 4U Feed eligibility standards. Girl, the girl, they starting to cut me off. Girl, they're starting to cut me off. Okay, let me talk to you about this because I think that this is very important.
A lot of church guys are sheltered, so they actually don't know how to interact with women.
That's number one. The other thing that I think is very important is that a lot of the ways of the church can be quite patriarchal. Meaning, like, a lot of religious men think that they know what's best and often don't want to hear from women.
They, you know. You know, those guys that think that they know everything. That's a church guy. That's a church guy.
Yeah.
Can be quite judgmental as well. So something to. To be careful about.
Right. I'm not saying that, like, all of them are horrible, but these are things that I want you to look out for when you're engaging. Yeah. Misogynistic, for sure. When you're engaging with them. Okay.
Okay. D3 said, what if boring is what I need for stability? There's a difference between a man that is boring and you feeling bored.
If you're not engaged by anything that that person is saying or doing, that's an issue.
You. You want to be able to feel like you're having fun while you're interacting with your potential person. Fun is a very important part of everyday life.
Okay.
Super important.
So something to think about and consider.
Yeah. Okay.
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