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How do you stress a man out?

Name: How do you stress a man out?
Uploaded: 2024-09-07T22:00:08+00:00
Duration: 4 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Short monologue from a YouTube video (Anwar White) explaining how setting boundaries and showing vulnerability can stress men. The speaker argues…

7 Sept 2024 · 0 min

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Short monologue from a YouTube video (Anwar White) explaining how setting boundaries and showing vulnerability can stress men. The speaker argues boundaries force men to re-evaluate what is acceptable, increasing respect, while vulnerability is stressful because many men are not socialized for deep emotional conversations. The remark clarifies that "stress" refers to discomfort from boundary-setting and emotional openness, not malicious intent.

Someone said examples of stressing them out.
So I would say boundaries and vulnerability. When you continue to set boundaries with men, that is going to stress them out, because they need to figure out what's in bounds, what's out of bounds. That's why I was saying they're going to respect you more when you do that, because then it's like 50 figuring out, okay, I hope I'm in bounds. Right. The other thing is when a guy is vulnerable with you or when. Sorry, when you're vulnerable with the man, because most men are not conditioned and socialized to, like, have deeper emotional conversations. That's also a level of stress for them. So when I say stress them out, I'm not talking about, like, be a to them. I'm talking about setting boundaries and being vulnerable.
Okay.