Anwar White on how to bring up marriage after three years together. Have a direct conversation about what you both want, set a timeline like engagement within three to six months, and signal you're serious about moving forward.
Haley said, how do I bring up that I want to move in together in his house? We've been together for three years. I think IDW means I don't want marriage or I do want marriage.
I think that you need to have a conversation first. I need to know what marriage. Do you want it or you not want it? One of the things that I think is important is that you move in with a guy, but there needs to be an engagement with that move in.
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You know, first of all, you need to talk about marriage with this guy. If it's past two years, the probability of you getting married goes from 53 down to 17%. So you need to. You need to talk about if you want to get married. And I'm assuming that you do. Let's just make that assumption. It doesn't. Maybe that's not your truth. You need to let him know. What would make me feel really good about moving forward in this relationship is being engaged in the next three to six months.
We're not saying he has to do it. We're just sharing exactly what would make you feel good.