How I used to date?

Chrissy said, what about German men for black women? So I lived in Germany for a year and a half. I was proposed to three times. German men love black women and men.

So.

Yeah, they love, they love this girl.

Kayal said, do you have a book? So I've written a book. I'm speaking with agents now. I'm actually going the more traditional publishing route because I'm taking over the world. Some of the girls are gagging when they said that I was proposed to three times. Why are you gagging? So.

It is actually not that complicated to have men fall in love with you. Yeah. So here's what I would say.

And maybe you all are seeing this in the Internet, but.

I've gained a lot of knowledge when it comes to dating. And when you're younger.

Like some of these other Internet dating coaches out here, you may use those powers for not so good. So when I was in Germany, I was in my dark feminine era.

Making men fall in love with me. Yeah. But I don't do that anymore. I'm a good girl. I'm a good girl now, girl. I'm the good witch.

I'm the good witch.

Lean said, what ethnicities like or prefer plus sized black women. I would say like Hispanic, like Mexican. I would say also like Middle Eastern.

Arab men.

Can't get enough of it.

I love this. The girls are saying how many times that they've been proposed to as well.

Yeah, that happens a lot.

Jean said, I love you and more. You help me so much as a person of color. Woman. Poc Woman. Awesome, awesome, awesome.

I love that.

Okay, let me see what y' all are talking about here. Someone said, I want to be the bad witch. Someone said, teach us your ways and magic.

Okay, let me see. And I don't usually do this. Ladies, let me cross my legs.

Yes, honey, I was in my Galinda era.

So what do you do? Let me think. What do you. What questions do you have around? Maybe having a guy fall in love with you?

Maybe if I have like specific questions.

It'Ll help me answer the questions. Okay.

Dark feminine tricks, dark tactics. Okay.

So.

Let'S say that you meet someone.

And you always want to feel. You always want them to feel like you're. You're walking away from them, not running away. Because if you run away from a guy, like figuratively, literally, they'll let you go. But if you're walking away, they'll want to know, hey, why are you walking away? So you always want to feel like this. He's here. You always want to Feel like this.

So he's always doing this.

If you go too fast, he'll just let you go like that. So when you're doing this, what does this mean? It means, so this is what I was doing when I was younger. Okay.

So let's say he calls you.

So I would just talk to him for like five minutes and then be like, oh, I gotta go. And then I would just go.

And then I would say something like, oh, call me tomorrow. I'll be more available then. And then. So now and then, I literally do that almost every day. So now he's calling me every day.

Okay.

And usually at like the three day mark, I'd be like. I'd be like a little bit bratty. Okay. Oh, my gosh. You're calling me all the time, but you haven't even asked me out yet.

I'm starting to question whether you like me or not.

I was a brat, girl. I was a brat. So then. Then they would take me. They would take me out. They would take me out twice a week, right? So.

It really does work. But again, this is not what I do now. This is not what I teach my clients. Now. I'm just sharing this with you because you all asked me, what did I do to get these guys to fall in love with me, right? So I would always. I would always be on the phone. And then if they didn't ask, if they didn't ask me out within three days, I'd be like, I guess you don't like me. And, you know, I'm. You know, I really just like guys that like me.

And then they would. They would say, no, no, no, I do. I really do. That's why I'm calling you so much. I said, okay, right? And then they would ask me out, and then I would. And then they be. Then they know, oh, my God, I can't. I can't be with anore unless I'm taking him out at least every three days. So that would be a guy that would. Taking me out at least twice a week. And then when we would go out, right?

What I would do is, oh, my God, this is so bad, y'. All. I would.

Say we would go out to dinner. I would.

I would eat like half of my food, and then I would take a To go box, and then I would give it to somebody that was homeless on the street so that they thought that I was Mother Teresa. Because when I was showing that generosity to that person, then they would take it as, ooh, this person's gonna be Anwar's gonna be very generous to me as well.

Don't do as I say. Don't. Don't do as I did. Don't do as I did. Don't do as I did. Don't do as I did.

Girl, girl, girl, girl, girl. Don't do as I did. Don't do as I did. Now he's like this.

Right?

Gagged them, girl. Gagged them. Yes, honey. So. So then I would do that. So that. That was like my go to for the first date. Yeah. Someone said, is this in your book? No, because I want y' all to date the right way. Don't do as I did, girl.

Right? When you're giving to the homeless girl, it's like, oh, this volunteers, right? Oh, she's gonna be head of pta. Oh, she's a wife. She's not just some rando girl, right?

So that's what I did. So that's like a date. One sitch. Okay, so the date.

Yes. Yes. Girl. Humanitarian tea. Humanitarian tea is real. Okay, but the gap. Here's the gag, ladies. All of the. All of the relationship gurus are. Are master manipulators. I've turned the corner, but a lot of them still are doing that. Someone said, was this in Germany? Yes, this was everywhere. Everywhere, girl. Everywhere. I did this. It works like a charm. Okay? So after that, he's like, oh, my God. You know, after that date, it's like, amazing. And he's calling, and then he's like, I gotta. I gotta take this person out again.

And then for the second date.

I always tell him, I want to do something fun.

Okay?

So. Oh, my God. The girl said, you got the karma point stacked. Yes, girl. I mean, it was a win win, right? Someone got to eat. And then I ate.

So second date, I always said, okay, I want to do something fun, right? So it was always, like, something that was a little bit competitive, right? Because men like to compete. It's going to increase their testosterone.

And so we always did something competitive, whether it's like bowling or.

Like putt putt golf or something like that.

And then so in that competitive, it would, like, raise that testosterone, right? And then when the testosterone is, like, risen, these men are gonna like you more, right? So you're always gonna. I always wanted to do a fun activity day. And then I always used to. Yeah, I was very competitive. I used to play sports. I was, like, captain of my tennis and basketball team. I'm six two. Y' all don't know that because you always see me sitting down But I give Model T, okay? Like.

Slick, slender.

So then I would be talking my shit, right? Someone asked, did you let them win?

I would win. I would. I would win at the very beginning. And then at the end, I would let them win. Ego T. Ego T. You got to know a man's ego. Okay? So I would. I would always beat them. I would always talk so much shit. These men have to know that you can talk shit to them. They will respect you more when you're talking shit to them. Okay, So I would talk mad shit. Oh, my God. You're not even good at this. Why are we even here? Like, I could have just done this by myself. Like, you're gonna have to step it up. And then at the end, I would let him win.

Right? So second first date, I established that I was Mother motherfucking Teresa. The second date, I established that I'm Serena Williams. Like, literally what I'm telling you right now is that you have to let them know that. What did Whitney and Chaka say? You're every woman.

It's all in you.

Okay? So then I was giving Simone Biles and Serena Williams on the second date, okay? So that was the second date. So that was always fun. Generally on the second date, that's when we would really make out. We would make out, right? The first date.

If I, like, you know, if I, like, didn't really care, I would. If I went to. If I. Okay, so I was a kissing hoe when I was in the club. So when I was dating, I wouldn't kiss on the first date, but I would definitely kiss on the second date, okay? Because between the second and third date, guys want to know, do you still like me? Even though they might like you, they still gotta know.

Okay? So that's what I do on the second date, okay? So now, girl, he doesn't know what has hit him. I've given him two women. Someone said on the lips, on the face, girl.

Lip tea.

What am I gonna do? Kiss him on the forehead, girl. Kiss him good night as if he was my six year old child. Never that.

Yeah.

Okay, girl. What do you mean, kiss on the lips? I don't even kiss on the lips. I kiss on the tongue, honey. I kiss on the tonsils.

Lip.

Girl. What do I do I look like I'm french?

Not that.

Honey. He needs to know that I know what I'm doing.

This is actually very important, ladies, and let me tell you why.