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How important is confidence as a key factor in dating?

Name: How important is confidence as a key factor in dating?
Uploaded: 2024-03-06T12:58:07+00:00
Duration: 41 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: Anwar White argues confidence matters more than body size, skin color, or gender in dating. He uses the story of Kat, who lost 90 pounds in 18 months but…

6 Mar 2024 · 1 min

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Anwar White argues confidence matters more than body size, skin color, or gender in dating. He uses the story of Kat, who lost 90 pounds in 18 months but still struggles to date, to show that external changes alone don't fix attraction. The real difference is how you carry yourself.

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90 pounds in 18 months.

March 6, 2024.

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Kat said, I have lost 90 pounds in 18 months and just getting back into dating. I'm struggling with confidence. Why is that? Girl, what do you think is going to happen? Girl, you lost £90? Girl, what's the tea? No shake. Girl, this is what I tell my clients that feel like they just need to potentially lose more weight or they don't have confidence or they don't think that they can get a guy if they're curvier, if they're plus sized. Please understand that, honey, I watch TLC all day, every day. And those girls on 600 pound life, girl, they always got a man. It's not about the size.
Yeah, you gotta know that. You're that girl.
Girl, confidence wins. Doesn't matter. Your size doesn't matter. Your skin color doesn't matter, your gender assigned or otherwise. For my trans girls out there, confidence wins. Always has, always will. That's why sometimes you'll see that girl who's like, not drop dead gorgeous, but she has a gorgeous man because her confidence is off the charts and he's gagging on her. I know. You're like, sometimes the girls are like, how did she get him? Girl, confidence, honey, confidence.