How important is his behavior between dates?

Zhang2 said, when he's in my city, he hangs out with me every day, but when he leaves, it's minimal contact.

What does that mean?

That means you're Disneyland.

That means that you're a fantasy and it's not real. So you actually need to cut him off. He doesn't get to ride your rides and then forget like he's never been there before.

Okay, I'm sharing this with you and.

I'm putting in these terms so that you understand exactly how he is experiencing you.

I am not saying this to be harsh.

I'm not saying that. I'm not saying this to hurt anyone's feelings. This is coming from a place of love and respect. Why? Because.

And I talk about this a lot.

I want you to focus on the bdb.

And no, I didn't say the B.

D, E, I didn't say the BBC, I said the bdb. Between date behavior that matters more than.

What you do while you're on the date. But what's happening for you, Zangitu, is.

You'Re hyper focusing on how much of.

An amazing time you're having on this.

Date that you're forgetting that no shade, he's not doing anything outside of that. You have to think about your. You have to think about the courtship almost as if you're in a relationship. When you're In a relationship, 80, 90% of the time, you're not going to.

Be with your person.

So what that means is that you're going to have to evaluate actually how he shows up for you when you're not together actually means more than when what how he shows up when you are together. Because it's going to represent 80 or 90% of the entire relationship.

So when you are away because it.

Sounds like it's a longer or medium distance, that is actually how the true relationship is going to go.

And it sounds like he is not.

Showing up as a full fledged potential partner. Off with his head.