How important is salary?

Rachel said. How important is salary that he makes more? I think salary is very important. I think that if he makes significantly less than you, he will never believe that he can truly provide for you. He will think that he is less than you. And oftentimes he will try to humble you to his level so that he can feel like he can be in control of you. Unless the man is like truly happy in his feminine energy. Like, you have some men, like teachers and nurses that like are okay being house husbands and they can have their lawyer or doctor wife bring the bacon home. Relationships are about compliments. There has to be a masculine and feminine. The thing is that most men are conditioned to be in their masculine. So you have to have a man that is very comfortable being in his full feminine to be with a woman that is going to take care of him. But salary is very important. You can't be making 80 or 100k and he's making 30k. That's not gonna work. You will be taken advantage of and then he will cheat on you because he needs to have a sense of control and he needs to feel like a man. And he will again start being abusive to you to take you down a few notches.

Do I want that to be your experience? No. But as a dating coach for 14 years, this happens more times than not. So I want to share that with you so that you can go into situations.

Clear eyed. Yeah.