Amaya argues the length of time you're single doesn't matter if you're healing and leveling up. Being ready for a relationship doesn't guarantee you'll find one, so you have to actually go out and meet people instead of waiting on dating apps.
Amaya said. How long is it okay to be single? For as long, as long as you find your person. Many of us feel like we're in a rush to find our person. I think that the focus should be on yourself, focusing on healing, focusing on leveling up, working on the things that are going to make you the best the woman that's ready for the best relationship of your life. This is the work that I do. That's what I focus on. And so if you're doing that, it doesn't matter how long it is. Because here's the thing, there's going to be a point when you're ready.
Just because you're ready doesn't mean you're going to find your person.
So. But one of the things that I think is important for many of you all is you're going to have to put yourself out there. Many of us aren't doing that. And because of that.
You have no dating momentum. That means you're not going to get any dating results. A lot of us are working from home and living from home and trying to date from home. I'm telling you right now, I've had to pivot this year. My clients are out and about because the apps are not apping. So if you have any questions about fucking apps, don't ask them. Because I'm not talking about apps because apps are not apping. You hear me? Ladies.
Get outside. Touch grass. Touch men.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
