Dating coach Anwar White argues against sleeping with someone before establishing exclusivity, warning that early intimacy can mask red flags and leave you emotionally vulnerable if he's not actually committed.
All about Nay said. How many dates before I sleep with him?
Well, girl, it already sounds like you really want to in your head, girl. So anything I say is going to be not what you want. Sounds like you wanted to sleep with him at negative one date.
My recommendation as a dating coach is that. That we're intimate after exclusivity. We want to see true commitment. The other thing is, like, girl, you can throw your pee around anytime you want to. No shade. The danger in that is that you will get chemically bonded to a man and you'll be diplomatized, and you'll have the twitches, the shakes, because it'll mess with your critical reasoning skills.
So you can do all of that if you want to.
But it will affect you and how you think about this guy. And it'll create a roller coaster inside of your body, Girl, you'll be a part of Inside Out, Part three, the movie.
And they'll add a new character called D.
Don't be that girl, please. Don't.
You hear me?
It's true, Tea, honey. It's true, Tea.
Okay?
And we all know that girl. Best friend, cousin, sister, auntie. She's with the guy. That is not good for her at all. But she is so stigmatized that she's not even thinking straight.
Don't be that girl. Part of it is waiting. It's also a great evaluation tool to see if he's actually wanting a relationship or if he just wants to hit.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
