Anwar White explains how non-Black men flirt differently from Black men, using subtler friendship-first approaches instead of overt displays. Watch for signs like extended conversation, repeated staring, and feet pointing toward you. A direct script: 'You seem to be staring at me a lot. Are you flirting with me or should I be scared?'
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Girl, non black men flirt differently than black men. And I did a video earlier this.
Week about how non black men are checking for black women. And so many of them were like.
I don't see it where, how, when.
Girl, I'm gonna put you on game.
Right now because I think that you're used to a more assertive, aggressive flirt from black and brown men that you.
Are not even seeing how subtly these men are flirting with you. Yeah. So put.
For those of you that don't know.
Me, my name is Anwar White. I'm a dating coach for black and brown women. And I want to put you on.
Game Girl so that you can catch all the men.
Like Pokemon honey. Yeah.
So I'm sure you're used to black men that are giving you this hit you over the head with a rock and pull you into the cave energy. In terms of flirting, where they are catcalling you, I call it shouting and yelling or barking at you or grabbing your wrist or arm.
That's not what these non black men are going to do, at least not the majority of them.
What they are going to do is they are going to focus on cultivating.
A friendship with you first and foremost. Yeah.
And it's going to feel weird to.
You and you're going to feel oblivious and not know the signs because you're not going to know if he's being.
Nice or if he's flirting with you.
Here's what I want you all to know.
If he's being nice and he's talking.
To you for more than two to.
Three minutes, he is flirting with you. And if you don't believe me, think about your daily life and how many.
Conversations you have with non black men that are not working for you or in service to you. Pretty sure not so many.
Right. So please understand that if he's staring at you more than twice, he's into you. If his feet are pointing towards you, it is body language 101 to let you know that he is into you.
Okay? And a lot of women are like, they stare all the time. They don't do anything. Most non black men are not going.
To approach you because they think that.
You'Re focused on black men and they don't want to be rejected. So I wanted to do what my.
Mentors, KP and Envy, taught me how to flirt, which is you walk over.
To him slowly and say, I know you don't know me.
But then I want you to give him this line. You seem to be staring at me a lot. Are you flirting with me or should I be scared?
He'll be right here at your palm, honey.
But let me take a step back, right? Because this is about being the main character in your love life. No more of this funny best friend energy. And if you have problems learning how to be the main character, where you are choosing the men versus waiting to be chosen, you definitely need to book a call with me. But if you don't want to do that, that's fine. I want you to change your mindset. I want you to think of you hosting a party and you being, you know, connecting with each and every person. That sort of energy is the energy that I want you to put in your love life. I hope this was helpful and a little bit fun.
