Anwar White argues women should stop initiating in the talking stage and let men do the courting instead. He uses Michael Jackson's "Remember the Time" video as an example of how a woman should be treated like a queen on a throne, not someone chasing a man's attention.
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Okay. Someone said simply, Nate said, if you're in the talking stage, how often should you communicate via text or call? Well, first of all, I want us to understand something.
I want us to understand.
This mindset. You should never be in a talking stage with a man.
You should always be in courtship.
It's a different energy.
Courtship is allowing men to do all of this work and receiving when he does it. Talking is give and take, give and take, 50, 50. Courtship is I'm on my throne as a queen.
I'm not reaching out to him. I'm not initiating conversation. I'm not calling him.
I'm being courted.
And if you want to understand what that looks like, I want you to remember the, remember the time video of Michael Jackson and Iman is on the throne and she has all of these men coming to entertain her.
Okay.
I don't talk. I am courted. It's a mindset. Get into it.