YouTube monologue (Anwar White) advising women how to approach men in social settings. Recommends positioning near a man rather than forceful approaches, opening conversation first with light, specific compliments (e.g., "I love your shirt") or asking for help/recommendations (e.g., what drink to get), and adopting a playful, energetic tone. Emphasizes men may be lonely and receptive to conversation.
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Okay, Ace it. How should women make moves on men in real life? So number one, whatever you do, don't like walk across the room and approach a man that's giving pimp tea.
You want to position yourself, okay, you want to position yourself in a way where you're seeing or that you're next to a person. Don't be afraid to talk about.
Don't be afraid to open your mouth and say something first. Now, I don't want you saying things like, hey, baby.
Right?
What are my recommendations? What were my go to's when I was out in these street scrawl? I would always give a man a compliment. Oh my God, I love your shirt. Where did you get it from? I love those shoes. I need to get some for my brother.
Or you can ask them for help. Hey, can you get me a glass of water? I'm parched. Or you can ask for a recommendation.
Oh, my God. What drink do you usually get here? This is my first time and I want to make sure that I'm getting the best drink possible. So what's your recommendation for me? Now don't get me anything that's going to get me all wasted and tipsy because I'm a lightweight. I don't drink the hard stuff.
Get the tongue, get the energy, get the lightness.
So use one of those start conversations because these men are dying for you to talk to them. These men are lonely, girl. Lonely girl. They're there when they go. They go to work and then they come home and they're in their cave.
They need somebody to talk to. Okay? They're waiting for it, girl.