How should you approach dating as a single mother?

Yeah.

Olivia said advice for dating as a single mother.

I want. If you're a single mother, you're going to have to start acting like an only child.

Most single mothers are in their masculine energy, which means that you're like all day, every day. You are used to barking orders at your children and that will translate into interacting with men. And so when you bark orders at men, they're going to be disgusted with you. And so oftentimes many of my single mothers have to really lean in and be intentional about learning how to sit comfortably in their feminine energy, which is what I teach in my programs. But if you don't know how to do that, it's going to be hard to attract truly masculine, energetic men. And you and your masculine will attract either a hyper toxic masculine guy or a guy that's looking for a mother who's regressed into a teenage boy and, and who's more in his dominant feminine energy. Yeah, you got to act like an only child. And what does that look like? It means everything is about you, girl. It means what you want, you get. And maybe act a little spoiled, not overly, but you have to be self centered and you have to be a bit selfish and you can practice that in your everyday life. What does that look like? It looks like getting the things that you want to get first and then getting the things that your children want or need second. So many parents, and I was this, I was this parent too. You lose your identity and your identity becomes, oh, I have to serve these beings. And if you don't check that, you will just start serving these men. You just transferring your service, girl. It's like transferring her service from one, you know, provider to another, a mobile provider to another.

No, girl, you, you don't want to have any service. So that's why you want to start.

Like when you go to the grocery store, girl, and you're getting all those things for your kids, get your shit first. I don't care if you want to get their favorite cereal. Get your favorite cereal first and then their second. If sometimes what some parents will do and parent knows parent girl, is when you're so tired, girl, you just eat whatever they didn't eat, girl. You're, you're literally eating the scraps of another person. And literally and figuratively, that can happen in your romantic relationships unless you learn how to order an amazing meal for yourself. Uber eat it, girl. Uber eat it. Yeah, that's how you switch the game up as a single mother.

Let me know if I'm lying, if I'M lying. I'm dying, honey. Thank you.