A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White giving direct advice on flirting. The speaker warns against giving immediate compliments when a man approaches, arguing that doing so signals low status and pursuit. The speaker frames desired dynamics with a status metaphor (you as queen, he as knight) and advises inspiring him while keeping your status elevated.
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Okay, the girl who said, as good as you look. No, don't do that. We don't give. If a guy is approaching you, we don't want to give him a compliment off the bat. It's too much, it's too thirsty, and it means we're pursuing already. Don't do that. Wait till he gives you some and, like, he needs to give you more compliments, more love, more attention before we give him a little bit something back. We. We can't go out the gate giving him everything because then, guess what? He's being pursued by us. Guess what? We've already pedestalized him and put him above us. And the gag about flirting is that.
You have to be the queen, and you always have to make him feel like he is.
Like, inspire him. But know that your status is actually on the pedestal. Right? He's the knight, you're the queen, Right? If you're already giving him the compliment from the get go, you're kissing the ring of the king.