Anwar White explains how women can create openness with men: sit nearby, say hello, ask for help, give compliments. Men rarely get genuine compliments, he says, and they can disarm someone and make them receptive.
Nell said, how should women approach men? So I don't really think women should, like, approach men, but I do think that you should open the space. So, like, I think you should position yourself but not approach. So you should be nearby. If you want to talk to someone, sit next to them.
Say hello. Start a conversation. Ask for help.
Right? If you are at the grocery store, ask him to get. Get you a can of soup, girl. Right? Ask for a recommendation. Compliment. You know what? Men love compliments.
It's they will smile so hard because you have to understand something. Men never get compliments. Everyone's always on them and always talking about how they're not good or they're not good enough. This. This is how. This is how guys bond by razzing each other. This is how men respond to their parents as well as at work. Do better, do better, do better. So when you give them a compliment.
All the walls are going to fall down, girl. He's gonna fall down like Humpty Dumpty, girl.