How should you really date?

People saying, you got to be comfortable with rejection. You have to understand that I think y' all are taking a lot of this very seriously. Meaning y' all are going and talking to these guys or going out and hoping that these guys will talk to me in the same way that you were hoping that they were going to ask you to dance at the dance.

Girl, don't play this junior high game, okay? You're gonna have to kind of talk with a lot of different people.

I think we are, like. We're going from zero to a hundred, and we're trying to figure. We're trying to, like, get his number to try to make him my husband, right? When you're out and about this, too much pressure. Girl, have fun. Talk to as many people as possible. I don't want you to think about this in terms of, did I get the number? Did I not get the number?

Did he get my number? No.

Did you start the conversation? Did you have a conversation? Did you connect? That's the win.

Okay? That's the win. People are saying we're on a time crunch. If you're in a time crunch because of your biological clock, girl, go freeze your eggs. The last thing that I want to have happen. And I will tell you this because I date a lot of. I date. I coach a lot of women that are between the ages of 35 and 40, and they put a lot of pressure on themselves because they want to have a baby with somebody.

And they want to get married, but actually they just want to have a baby with somebody.

Please don't.

Please understand that the more pressure that you put on yourself, especially at that age, the more you will let certain things slide. Just to have a baby with somebody, and then a year later, it's done. Because we didn't do the due diligence necessary to figure out if this person could be a really great partner.

Yeah.

You see it all the time.