A brief advice monologue (YouTube transcript) in which the speaker, Anwar White, explains how to respond to last-minute date invitations. The speaker rejects accepting same-day proposals without details, and defines a proper date as requiring a day, time, and location (all three).
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Okay.
Someone said, how should you respond to a guy asking you on a date last minute, the day of? So.
I always think it's like, so let's say you're having a date in the tonight. I would never, I would never accept a date before, like, details after lunchtime. I would never do that. That's seriously, like, late, late notice for me. But here's what I want to offer to you and everybody else here. A lot of women, let's say you have a conversation with a guy on a Tuesday, and he says, oh, yeah, let's go out on Friday. Some of you all are thinking that that is a date.
That is not a date.
You're going to need a day, a time and a location. And if you don't have all three of those, you don't have a date.