This content was created by Anwar White. This content was uploaded by Anwar White. This is a YouTube video titled "How should you respond with banter to these lines? Part 3" created on May 19, 2025. It features a single speaker discussing how to respond to compliments with playful banter, emphasizing the importance of internal healing and personal growth in dating contexts.
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Okay, wait. Okay. Maddie said, what about you're so beautiful, there's no way you're single. Okay, great, great. So, ladies, talk to me. When someone says, you're so beautiful, there's no way that you're single. What's the response?
And thank you all so much for the 57,000 likes. Someone said, that's a hard one.
Someone said, want to find out?
Someone said, that stumps me every time. I don't know how to respond.
Someone said, I am. Again, respectfully speaking, that's a C response. Someone said, men. Okay, that's a D minus response.
Right. Again. When a guy comes up to you and said, oh my God, you're so beautiful, I think the, the, the statement was, I can't believe you're single.
Yeah. Someone said, I know, right?
I'm shocked too. Is a good one. Yes. It's, it's a fun one, but it also gives like a little bit of deflection and maybe I'm not self aware. Right. So I'll give that a. B minus, C plus.
Bling started it off, but I'm going to finish it. Bling stalker said, the right one hasn't found me yet. Follow up, you get to say, are you the right one? Are you going to change that for me? Now he has to think, well, maybe I can, maybe I can't. How can I do it?
Right.
Yeah. Someone said, well, change it again. Stop telling men what to do. We've got to work on the communication. Don't tell, don't. Don't give directives like that.
I am. How are you going to change that for me? See, now he has to do stuff for me.
Right? When we talk about stressing men out, this is part of it. The stress comes with him having to solve the problem, which is how do I answer this amazing woman who's beautiful? How can I prove myself to actually let her think that I can change it for her?
Right?
Yeah.
So is that helpful?
Someone said, I'm selective. But you can't end it there. You did the conversation. You got to. Now you got to give something, something back. I'm as selective as Harvard. Are you applying? And then he, and then, then he can say yes. And then you get to ask him about his credentials. Well, let me see the application. What you got?
Right. Here's what I want you all to know. Because, honey, the other dating coaches on here, they can't do this. They can't do this. Why? Because I do it all day, every day. But secondly, there is something to be said and this is something that you won't get on the Internets.
You're going to have to heal your internal so that you can feel safe enough to be light and to be playful and to not be defensive.
And that's part of the work of the program, so that you have this levity, so you have this lightness and this flow, and you can be in your feminine and know that you're the most powerful being out here.
So if you want to do that deeper work so that it could come naturally from you.
Book the call, get into the programs, because that's what we're doing.
This is very important. This work is deeper than putting on red lipstick and a red dress and cosplaying femininity.
Okay. I think it is very important for you all to understand this.
