Anwar White explains how to respond when a man asks "When can we link?" Reject the vague slang by asking clarifying questions or offering specific times like "I'm available Monday night or Thursday night." Push him to propose actual plans so he has to commit to taking you out.
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Lalaloopsy Fitness says hi. How do you answer if a guy says, when am I going to see you again and when can we link? First of all, we don't link. A link is a kink and we don't do that. So when he says, when can we link, give him triple question mark. I don't speak that language. I don't know what you mean. When he says, when am I going to see you again? You get to let him know, well, when would you like to see me again? Put it back on him and let him make it happen. Right. That's one approach. The second approach is I'm available Monday night or Thursday night. What works best for you? And then once he gives you the time, let him know, what are we going to do?
Yeah.
Girl, give him the pathway to take you out.
But you got to give him the space to make it happen and to figure out all the logistics, okay?