A dating coach explains how white and Asian men signal interest differently than black men, with subtler cues like extended conversation and specific body language. She recommends watching for signs like talking over two minutes and feet pointing toward you, and dating broadly to expand your options.
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Cece said, I want to date white men, but I only attract black men. What should I do? You need to talk to these white men, honey. They're not going to approach you in the same way that black men do. Right. You're thinking that they're not into you because they're not coming up to you and spitting game like maybe some of these black guys are. That's not how they do it. If you see if a white guy is talking to you for more than two or three minutes, he's into you. If his feet are pointing toward you, he's into you. It's just body language. We can't help it if he's, like, hovering around and stays around you, girl. You know, like a little pesky mosquito, honey. It means he's into you. Same with Asian men. This is how they do it, honey. That's why so many black women don't understand that there are so many men that are really checking for them. It's just that they do it completely different than the black guys do. So they think, oh, my God, only black guys are into me. No girl and no shade. But a lot of black guys actually aren't as into you as you think.
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And that's not me coming for you. I'm just saying you're leaning into something that is not necessarily reciprocal. So that's why I am a dating coach that definitely encourages and recommends that all of you date everybody you will 7x your chances of getting your guy if you are able to do this. And that's what I want for you.
