A short advice monologue by Anwar White addressing a listener (Nikita) who is a plus-sized woman attracting hypersexual men. The speaker discusses how revealing photos and cultural assumptions about curvier bodies can invite unwanted sexualization and emphasizes the importance of firm boundaries.
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Nikita said, I'm a plus sized woman but have no problems getting dates or attracting men. However, the men seem hypersexual. How can I avoid these men? Well, it depends. Your pictures might be really revealing. So we definitely want to make sure we're. We're giving Banana Republic Michelle Obama and we're not leading with pictures. You know, some of the girls will give you one of these pictures, but then all they're showing is that booty, booty, booty, booty, booty everywhere. You don't want to do that. Or some of the girls, especially the big bus, H H size girls, will give you a lot of this showing all this, all of that girl. And you know what you're doing? You attracting those wolves, girl. That's part of it. Now those men are. Many men are gonna hypersexualize you anyway because you are curvier. And they think, and I'm gonna keep it real with you, that because you're curvier, you don't care about your body. So he feels like he can do whatever he wants to it and will kind of use you or try to use you for your body. So it just means that your boundaries need to be tight, honey tight.
Like no flexibility. So. And if you need help with that, we can definitely help you get your boundaries in or door.
