Anwar White breaks down red flags to spot narcissists on dating apps. Watch for down-angle selfies, shirtless photos, and profiles that say things like 'I'm a high value man' or 'no time wasters.' Tinder, Plenty of Fish, and Bumble attract more of them because of anonymity.
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Hey girl, did you know that there are more narcissists in online dating than there is offline dating? And the reason why this is is because there's a level of anonymity and also you don't have to have an emotional depth to online date. It doesn't mean that you shouldn't online date because there are a lot of great guys and I love online dating, but I think it's important to understand that. So I wanted to highlight and give you some of the best ways to avoid narcissists while you are online dating. Okay, so first of all, the top three dating sites for narcissists are Tinder, Plenty of Fish and Bumble. So you do want to avoid those if you can. So first let's start with the pics. If the pig has certain angles, especially the down angle where he's looking up at you, narc. If he's doing certain faces and trying to be fun and cute, kissy face, you want to stay away from that. Guys that are like in their healthy masculine energy are just going to give you a straight on, no smile or smile. Right? The other thing, shirtless pics or pics that are overly curated, probably narcissists. Why? Because guys don't really take pictures of themselves. So if they are so hyper focused on how they're looking, you already know girl. Okay, so those are some of my thoughts for the pics in terms of profile, guys that are overly negative, talking about, I don't want any time wasters or guys that say things like be real, it's overly negative, you want to stay away from those, probably narcs. The other thing, if he's saying I'm a kind guy or I'm a nice guy, probably a narc, kind and nice guys don't talk about how kind and nice that they are.
And then finally, if they are considering themselves and saying, I'm a high value man, he's a high value narcissist. Okay, I hope this helps as you navigate online dating. Don't be scared of it. Just know and be equipped to handle it. And if you need more help with that, book a consultation call with me and I will definitely help you date with strategy.
