Short YouTube monologue advising women on dating: speaker urges women to engage with men who match their level, to share achievements (promotions, recognition) early to gauge reactions, avoid partners who become jealous or competitive, and seek partners who cheerlead and celebrate their success. Encourages self-promotion on dating profiles and not dimming one’s accomplishments.
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Someone said how to avoid stopping the out of his league girl. You're going to need to start engaging with men that are actually on your level.
Not just the guys that give you attention and adore you.
They're gonna. Every woman is going to have. Right now, you probably have two or three men in your orbit that actually adore you and will do a lot of different things for you.
You're going to have to. The tricky thing about guys that get with women that are out of their league is that they're going to treat you like heaven for a certain amount of time. It is going to be very important for you to.
Bridge. Talk about the great things that are happening for you. That promotion at work. Right. That, you know, recognition from the local organization. And you're gonna need to see how he reacts to it.
Because a lot of men will get tired of your. Those kinds of men will get tired of your accomplishments and start not giving you the life that you want or deserve. Right? Yeah. You want to see that jealousy streak and those men have it. And when you start sharing that.
Early, you'll start to see it earlier.
Someone said. But then men get intimidated. Then those aren't the men for you. Your future partner or husband, if you choose to be married, is going to be your biggest cheerleader. And he's. He's gonna want things more for you than you want for yourself.
That's what it looks like.
Yeah. When they start competing with you, bow out. Let them know you won by yourself.
Yeah.
So don't be afraid to brag, honey. Such. Because y' all are. A lot of y' all are killing the game.
Killing the game. And then so many of you all want to kind of dim your light, girl. Now.
Some of y' all don't want to put your professions on your dating app profiles or not talk about the ideas that you have. No, do all of that. Your person's going to love all of that and more.
Yeah. N said I talked about a promotion and he left. Good.
