A short transcript excerpt from a YouTube video advising listeners how to be less argumentative—especially during early dates—by adopting an observation mindset and checking in with their feelings rather than trying to be right.
Tiffany said. Do you have any tips on practicing being less debatable? Yes.
Here's the thing. Especially on early dates, you gotta just be in observation mode. We have to stop trying to be right.
What I want us to do is I want us to listen to what other people are saying and then check in with ourselves to try to see how that makes us feel. When you're debating someone, you don't have time enough to check in with yourself. Yeah. So practicing being less debatable by checking in with yourself and always having an answer to how do I feel? How do I feel?