Short excerpt from a YouTube video (by Anwar White) advising that becoming more vulnerable around men requires deeper work: learning to feel safe, addressing cultural conditioning in Black and Brown households, and doing inner-child work to build safety for vulnerability.
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Brie Gam said. Tips on how to be more vulnerable around men that's deeper work that needs to be done. It's not like you're just going to be able to do it. You actually have to learn how to feel safe doing that. And for many black and Brown women, that's not something that's conditioned in our households. Like, that's not like your feelings were not necessarily welcomed or celebrated as you were growing up. So you don't necessarily. You might not feel 100 saf safe while you're doing that. So there's a lot of deeper work that needs to happen, even with the inner child, to allow you to start to feel safe around being more vulnerable. From a feeling perspective.