A short YouTube talk by Anwar White offering dating advice for smart, successful women who say they 'don't like men.' He recommends these women seek partners who are caring and respectful — using the TikTok 'black cat / golden retriever' metaphor — specifically advising they consider the 'nervous guy' (who idealizes and respects them) and men who honor boundaries. The clip closes with a call-to-action to book a coaching call.
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Girl, if you don't like men, you're probably gonna make an amazing girlfriend. Now, as your fairy godbrother, I'm gonna put you on game in terms of who you should be dating if you don't like men.
It's mostly been the smart and successful women that have had or don't like men. And that is because most of the time, men, through school and work, have tried to humble them and disrespect them.
And so y' all have really good.
Reason to if you don't like men, too. But the reason why I'm on here is because I want you to do things differently, and we are choosing the.
Men and not waiting to be ch.
You have amazing partnership skills and gifts, and so we can't just be giving that to anybody.
So I'm here to share with you.
Who I think you should be partnering.
With and focused on as you are dating if you don't like men. Okay?
So if you've heard of this concept, it's a little bit trendy on TikTok. It is called the black cat golden retriever relationship. Hey, girl, you smart and successful girl.
That'S listening to this.
You're the black cat. You're the. No nonsense girl.
You.
You need to be looking out for the golden retriever. He's the little bit nervous, a little bit pesky, a perky golden retriever.
Many black cats out there are really.
Only focused on their clone, someone that is just like them. But, girl, you don't want Mr. Nonchalant. You want Shalon girl.
So we're looking for the golden retriever. So these are the two guys that I want you to focus on when you are dating.
If you don't like men, I want you to focus on the nervous guy.
Because the nervous guy likes you. He's nervous because he's putting you on a pedestal. He thinks you are a goddess, and.
That'S how you should be treated at the end of the day. So give the nervous guy a chance.
And secondly, you should be going for.
The guy who doesn't make a move on you. The guy that doesn't make a move.
On you on a date is overly.
Respectful of your boundaries.
Just like golden retrievers will jump in.
Front of the cat, but not actually jump on the cat. That's what you want in your guy.
When you are dating him, because these are boyfriend skills.
