How to Date Outside of Your City! #datingtips #datingadvice #singleblackfemale #singleblackwoman #bl

Is anybody else 100% convinced that their future partner, their spouse, their soulmate just doesn't exist in the city that they're from? And this is 100% true. Your person might not be in the city that you're currently in. And this is why I have to spit some game for you all. As a dating coach for 13 years, this is how I want you to work the apps instead of the apps working you. Okay? So I want you to be on two apps. And. And I want those apps to be in different cities. One in your city and the other one in a neighboring city that is one to two hours away from you. And then you're gonna flip flop every week. Yeah. To keep your profiles fresh. In those cities and in those apps, a third of my clients are getting their guys that are one to two hours away from them. Why? Because your person might not be in your city. And that's okay. That's why I love apps. We're not in school anymore where we're gonna same people in the same class to be able to see them. So we got to expand our options. Understand that there's a whole entire world out there and you get to explore it. When you get tired of the apps, some people completely cut them off. And you can do that, or you can play in a fantasyland and put your profile in a whole other country. Right. My behind. I was in Barcelona one week, Paris another week, Berlin another week, Montreal another week. And you know what happened, girl? I'm married with three children in Montreal, Canada. Au revoir.