Short YouTube advice monologue (Anwar White) explaining how to tell if a man is love-bombing while dating. Presents a three-part checklist (early pet names, excessive compliments, and future-faking), explains why some men may seem intense (poor dating experience), and recommends a direct rebuttal (ask “what do you like about me?”) to expose insincere interest.
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Hey, girl. So most people will think that this is an automatic love bombing, but that's not necessarily the case, because here's the thing. Most guys are really bad at dating. And so when you talk to them and listen to them, they're gonna think that they're actually feeling amazing because they don't get that experience most of the time. Now, the way that I think about love bombing is in three ways. One, one, if he's giving you pet names really early. Two, if he's over complimenting you, and this would be kind of a compliment now, if he does it, like, overly a lot, where you're getting uncomfortable, that's love bombing. And three, when he is future faking, when he's saying, oh, yeah, I want to take you to Paris in Christmas. And you're like, it's July, and we've been on two dates. What are you doing, dude? Here is the thing that I want you to understand. When he gives you a line like this, girl, you. You got to give him that uno reverse, and you got to be like, so, what do you like about me? Exactly. Now, he's probably going to malfunction.
Why? Because he might not like anything about you. So if he talks about anything physical or if he says something like, you're just different, or, you know, you. Whatever it may be, or he'll say something like if he's focused on the things that you do for him instead of the person that you are.
Got him. He's love bombing you, girl. Game over. No more love bomb over Baghdad for you, girl. I hope this helps as you differentiate between when you're getting love bombed and when you're not.
