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How to Filter Guys on Dates?

Name: How to Filter Guys on Dates?
Uploaded: 2025-12-07T18:44:25.845512
Duration: 1 min 4 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short coaching-style monologue advising daters to use a deliberate filtering strategy to weed out men who are not relationship-ready. The speaker…

7 Dec 2025 · 1 min

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A short coaching-style monologue advising daters to use a deliberate filtering strategy to weed out men who are not relationship-ready. The speaker claims most single men won’t progress to a third date (estimates ~90–97%) and recommends persistent outreach—'about 100 conversations'—and tracking dates with a dating tracker used by the speaker’s clients.

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Art hub, the collective said. Why is it so hard to find guys that want to actually take you out on a date and not just chill? Because most of these men are not relationship ready. And our job when we're dating is to have a strategy to be able to filter those guys out so we can just focus on the guys that are actually ready for a relationship, at which point we can make the determination of whether they're going to be a match for us or not.
Most of these guys that are single are not ready. 90, 97% of guys that you meet will never get to a third date. But, girl, you're going to have to have 100 conversations to find your person.
Historically speaking. And I literally track it with my clients. Each of my clients has a dating tracker where, where they label each guy that they've had phone dates with, physical dates with, and we document each and every date, right? So I want to let you know.
That'S what it requires. So if you find yourself on an app for two weeks and then you piece out.
Or you had 20, 10, 15, 20 conversations.
That'S not going to work, girl.