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How to Filter Your Top Candidates?

Name: How to Filter Your Top Candidates?
Uploaded: 2024-01-19T15:10:59+00:00
Duration: 42 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short coaching-style YouTube video (by Anwar White) that gives a concrete exercise to compare romantic partners: identify your top five needs, rate…

19 Jan 2024 · 1 min

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A short coaching-style YouTube video (by Anwar White) that gives a concrete exercise to compare romantic partners: identify your top five needs, rate each need from 0–10 for each candidate, and use a threshold (speaker suggests needing 9 or 10 on each need) to decide exclusivity. The speaker reports this exercise has been transformational for clients and recommends applying it to choose between two strong options.

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I see you made it. Said I have two great options ready to move forward with a relationship both successful and caring. You're gonna have to compare and contrast them. One of the things that I do with my clients is I have them get really clear on what their top five needs are, and once they're able and their guy has to score either a 9 or a 10 on each of those needs, and if he doesn't, you may not be exclusive with him. We actually did this exercise over the last two weeks, and it's been, like, transformational for so many of my clients. Yeah. So I would suggest the same thing for you. Figure out what your top five needs are and rate each of them on a scale from 0 to 10 and see who's really killing it.