A woman explains how to attract a provider by shifting from masculine to feminine energy. She recommends delegating tasks at work, asking for help from friends and family, and accepting small gestures like payments or flowers. Healing childhood wounds around receiving makes the shift authentic rather than performative.
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Someone said, how to find a provider man.
The easiest way to find a provider man is to allow yourself to be provided for.
I was talking to someone earlier today, and she was saying, I want. I want a leader. I want a provider. I want someone to make me feel safe. And I had a rebuttal, because, you know, I do. Emphasis on the but. I said, but, girl, your job is to.
Come to the table with your feminine energy and with the level of internal safety already.
Why do I say this? I say this because if you're in your masculine energy, and most of us are, if you're a single mother, you have to be in your masculine energy because you have to take care of everything.
That you're used to doing it all. A provider wants to provide for you. If you're. If someone says they want to do something for you, and your first words out of your mouth is, no, I got it, you and your masculine girl, you're not ready for a provider. Because if you're ready for a provider, you don't got it. You don't got anything. You don't have arms. You don't have legs. You are just a stump.
And we have to get to a point where we can allow ourselves, have the confidence, emotional confidence, to be able to allow people to do things for you. And if you don't know how to do that.
You better ask somebody. You better come into my program so we can get y' all together.
How can you do that? And it. This is the thing, too, ladies. I'm not saying you have to be a damsel in distress. I don't. I'm not saying you have to be this weak person that can't do anything. I'm saying I want you to be in your queen energy.
What does a queen do?
She knows what she wants, and she asks everyone else, similar to a CEO, to do it for her.
How can you work on this? Do it now? You shouldn't be doing anything for anyone.
And I know that goes against how we're raised.
But that's how you get successful in your dating life.
So everyone has to do everything for you.
So what is to practice this? I want you to delegate something at work to somebody else. Ask somebody. Oh, can you look at this? Hey, can you help me out with this?
Or with friends? Hey, can you do this for me? Hey, I'm running low on something. Can you. Can you get it for me? Or with family?
Especially with men.
That's why my clients.
Flowers.
Sometimes my clients are like, I'm not feeling well. It's that time of the month. And those men, you know what they're doing, honey? They're. They're. Cash app in $50. They're. They're Inc. Instacarting some pads. Right? For those heavy flow days. Girl, no shade.
Because my girls are letting them know this is how I'm feeling. This is what I need. I need help.
Hashtag to the girls with the heavy flows.
Shout out to them.
Yeah.
That'S the work. But what it requires is healing your inner child wounds to be able to have the emotional confidence to do that. You can try it right now and you can cosplay it. It's not going to be real.
