A monologic how-to segment advising women on flirting and networking at conferences. The speaker recommends planting ‘seeds’ by interacting with 3–5 men over the first two days, exchanging contact info (personal cell on a card), keeping interactions short (under 10 minutes), watching body language (feet pointing), and using timed glances and smiles to signal interest.
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Okay, what you want to do is you want to plant seeds and you want to flirt with a good three to five guys over the first, let's say two days, and then on the third day, you want to really get it in. If you are a sleeping type, some girls are, some girls aren't. Otherwise we keep the conversation going, we text, we are on the phone, we're hanging out. But right now, like the daytime, we're planting seeds, we're getting to know each other, we're exchanging numbers. No shade have a physical card, business card.
That has your personal cell on it.
The last thing that you want to do is.
You don't want men. You don't want other people. See, seeing that you're giving your number to other people.
When you sell them, you gotta go, you give them your card just like this. Make sure the nails, the mani pedi's right. Here's my card. Nice meeting you. Boom.
Get away. Don't talk to men for more than 10 minutes. In and out.
You want to do that three to five times each day and then use those, use those. Guys don't mean that in a negative way to get information about what's really going down that night.
Okay?
Yeah. Okay, here's the gag too. You always want to be. You always want to be checking the feet. If the feet are pointing towards you, it means that the guy likes you. Okay?
So always check the feet when you're at these conferences and you will figure out really quickly who is checking for you and who is not. That's how I always knew the guys that were checking for me. It didn't matter if they were DL, they were big, huge burly men or not.
Okay, so check that too, to figure out who's. Who's. Who's checking for you. And then I need you to give the.
I need you to give the. This is what I want you to give.
Look for two seconds, look away. One second, look back and smile.
Look, look away, look back and smile. Yeah, get some every time. Don't smile at the beginning, smile at the. When you look back.
That'S when they know they got you. That's when they're really going to come over.
People said three second rule. Three second rule is too much. Then you look like a perv. One, two, three. That's weird.
