A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White offering humorous, practical advice about recognizing and responding to flirtation from white men. The speaker argues white men often flirt subtly (e.g., "if you're talking to a white man for more than three minutes, he's flirting with you") and encourages Black women to confidently reciprocate, including in workplace contexts.
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Yeah. Okay.
Someone asked how to flirt with a white guy, it's the same as flirting with anybody else. Squirrel, like, come on now, again, these white men, they're not aliens. But here's what I will tell you, which I think is really important, and it is this. White men flirt differently than men of color.
Okay, why am I saying this? I. I'm saying this because oftentimes you will think like, oh, my God, I'm just having an interesting conversation in the line of Target without realizing that you've had a five minute conversation with a man and with this white man and you just thought it was just like a flyby conversation. No, that man was flirting with you. If you're talking to a white man for more than three minutes, he's flirting with you.
I need you to understand that.
So I need you to snatch them up like Pokemon, honey.
Okay.
You have no more excuses. You have no more excuses in terms of.
Missing out on some of these white boys out here trying to dip their toe in the water, honey. Okay. Snatch them up, honey. You know, okay, no shade, girl. I feel like every black woman has a white man at work that she flirts with and he flirts with her.
That energy that you give to your work, your work white husband, or for some of y', all, it's an Asian man, no shade.
That's the energy you need to be giving these white men outside of work. Do you hear me?
And you know what I'm talking about, too. Don't act brand new.
Yes. Because, honey, you got, you got at least two white husbands at work talking about, I'm single. No, you're not.
