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How to get out on situationships?

Name: How to get out on situationships?
Uploaded: 2024-08-13T14:04:05+00:00
Duration: 41 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short excerpt from a YouTube video (creator: Anwar White) offering direct advice on leaving a 'situationship.' The speaker emphasizes that exiting can…

13 Aug 2024 · 1 min

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A short excerpt from a YouTube video (creator: Anwar White) offering direct advice on leaving a 'situationship.' The speaker emphasizes that exiting can be as simple as saying "it's not working for me anymore," and warns that people often prioritize attention over safety. The clip frames situationships as emotionally abusive and dangerous—creating a constant sense of performance for the involved person.

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Marlena. Marlena said, I have to find a way out of my situation. It's really easy. You just say, it's not working for me anymore, and then you just welcome. What's happening is that you've gotten used to attention, and so you are prioritizing attention over safety. Being in a situationship, even though it feels safe, is one of the most dangerous places that you can be in in a relationship. It is, like, a little bit lower than, like, an actual physically or emotionally abusive relationship, because actually, it is emotional abuse. You know, when you're in a situationship, you're always going to feel like you're on, like, in an audition or performing.