Anwar White argues that a situationship is disrespectful because someone dangled false hope while knowing you wanted a real relationship. Stop treating it like a breakup. Put that person in a negative category and move forward.
Kasia said, how to get over a situationship. I still care. You still care because in your mind, you thought it was a relationship.
And you have to realize that it wasn't. You also have to understand that, like, if a guy is putting you in a situationship, he's disrespecting you. Many of us don't really think of a situationship as disrespectful. It's one of the most disrespectful things that a man can do because men know that women, if they're dating, they're looking. Looking for something serious because women are looking for love and have sex along the way, and men are looking for sex and fall in love along the way. So he already knows that you're looking for something serious. And so what he has done is he has dangled a carrot in front of you. And that is, like, the shittiest thing that he could do. So please, please understand. You're caring because you. You thought that this guy, like, really cared about you and was serious about you, and he wasn't.
And I'm saying this with all of the love and all of the respect in the world. I'm sharing this with you so that you understand that, like, it was never going to be something because he already put you in a category.
So now you get to put him in a category, which is the trash.
You hear me?
Oftentimes, in our minds, we think it's a relationship. So, like, you're thinking about this as a breakup. You can't break something up that was never put together.
You literally are in the same situation that you were in before.
No committed relationship.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
