A man worries his date isn't interested because she hasn't touched him. The speaker says guys who really like someone often hold back out of respect, and suggests he give her a quick hug and cheek kiss to signal he's open to more next time.
Shay said he's planning our fourth date, but no kiss, hand holding yet. Should I be concerned?
Not at all. This is the biggest gag that I have to tell so many of my clients because I have at least two or three women that are getting into relationships every week in my program. I'm actually going to do a shout out for one of my clients in New York tomorrow. And then last week, it was my clients. One of my clients was in Vermont.
If a guy really likes you, he's not going to make a move on you.
Because he's going to be overly respectful of your boundaries, and he's not going to want to mess it up. A lot of people won't. Don't get it. Like, they're like, oh, my God, he must not like me. No, girl, he really likes you. Don't be concerned. But here's what you want to do the next. The next go around. Yeah.
When you. He's waiting for your green light. So here's what you're gonna do, girl. And then I want you to report back and obviously name your first child after me. When you see him on that first date, give him a hug and give him a little peck on the cheek so he knows that kissing is okay. Then y' all gonna get it in, honey. Right? And then y' all be. Y' all will be good.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
