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How to have the 'what's next' conversation?

Name: How to have the 'what's next' conversation?
Uploaded: 2025-01-03T18:00:44+00:00
Duration: 1 min 28 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short advice monologue (Anwar White) arguing that asking "what's next" or having a DTR (define the relationship) conversation hands over personal…

3 Jan 2025 · 1 min

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A short advice monologue (Anwar White) arguing that asking "what's next" or having a DTR (define the relationship) conversation hands over personal power. The speaker urges women to state their position—"here's where I'm at"—and to leave if a partner isn't aligned (colorful lines like "Where's my pocketbook... I bun my hair, and I walk out"). The piece repeats key phrases for emphasis and frames agency and "queen energy" as central.

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Okay? Spark in your life said how to have the what's next Conversation. So if you want to have the what's next Conversation.
No shake or you already losing.
You'Re losing. Because when you're asking him, what's next? You're giving and abdicating your power to him.
You're saying, daddy, tell me what's next? You're playing daughter. You're not grown woman. You're not in your queen energy.
You don't. This is the gag, ladies. You don't. You don't have a dtr. Define the relationship. You don't have a what's next, my man. You have a here's where I'm at. Where are you? And if he's not where you're at.
Where'S my pocketbook? I get my pocketbook, I bun my hair, and I walk out of that joint.
Don't ever have a DTR conversation.
Don't ever have a what are we Conversation.
If you're having a what are we conversation, you don't know who the hell you are.
And what you want.
DTR means to find the relationship.