Anwar White says don't center your life around keeping one man interested. Date multiple people at once to avoid obsessing over a single guy, and focus on having fun instead of rushing toward marriage.
Sunshine said how to keep him interested. It's not your job to keep him interested. He's not a cat.
When you, when people ask questions like this, it means that you're centering him.
You're centering him and you're auditioning for him and you're waiting to be chosen. You should be asking him. You should be asking me.
How.
Does he keep my interest?
Yeah, it's not our job to keep men interested.
I think that one of the things that I want to just offer you is that there are millions, billions of men out there.
And when we do this, we're hyper focusing on one man. And.
You don't need that.
If you are asking yourself this, then he's probably not it and you're trying to make him it.
Girl, you can't make a man do anything.
Your job. Like, girl, you need to date like five other guys right now. Seriously.
Like, I need you dating so many guys that you forget their names. You forget what you told them. You're repeating yourself, cuz they are. Girl, they are like coins in a piggy bank.
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I said five. Girl.
I'm serious.
Yeah.
This. When you date multiple men, I call it Olympic dating. I want you having a gold medalist, a silver medalist and a bronze medalist. Someone said. You've got to be kidding. Where are these men? Girl, they're everywhere. This is the thing. Y' all are dating for marriage. You're not dating. I need you all to date and have fun. And when you do that, you will find people that are ready to be in an exclusive, long standing relationship with you.
Yeah.
Yeah.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
