Short monologue by a speaker (Anwar White) giving dating advice to women on how to encourage men to approach them in public. The speaker attributes reduced male approaches to cultural shifts and the pandemic, recommends women initiate conversations or use clear body language (smiles, waves, asking for help or recommendations), and criticizes passive 'cute and mute' behavior as outdated.
Yoli said amore. A lot of men look but don't approach me. Sometimes I think they think I'm too young.
No, a lot of people just, like. A lot of guys just, like, aren't approaching women these days. Like, I think the rate is, like, a. A third of guys are approaching women than they used to, like, 10 years ago. And this is part of me, too movement. This is part of the pandemic. And so you're gonna have to start some conversations or give him the green light through physical kind of mannerisms or body language. Right. How do I do that? I give. I. I give smile. I give wave. I give mortal. Calm back. Get over here.
I give what needs to be given. Right. Somebody next to me, I might give them a compliment. Someone right here. I might ask them for help. Hey, can you get me a glass of water? I am.
Parched. I might ask for a recommendation. I never come to this coffee shop. What should I get here?
Boom. Now we're talking. Now we're in conversation. Now we're doing what needs to be done. Now we're touching grass. We're touching men. We're outside. We're dating offline.
Yeah. And then we see how he drives the conversation. A lot of the girls are still acting cute and mute, like it's the 1950s. And you waiting for somebody to ask you to dance at the, you know, eighth grade, ninth grade dance. Girl can't do that anymore because it's just. It's not. That's not the tea anymore.
Yeah.
So don't say I've never.
Giving you anything because I'm giving lots of tea. Maybe too much tea. This is the stuff that you get in my program, honey.