A short monologue-style YouTube transcript offering practical advice for shy people on improving speaking skills by practicing with women first. The speaker argues connecting with women can feel easier than with men because some people 'pedestalize' men; she recommends reframing men as less intimidating to build confidence and practice humor and connection.
Austin, the Aussie. How can one improve speaking skills, especially when you're super shy? Start by, start by engaging with women first.
Yeah. So that you can learn how to make connections with women.
Because oftentimes that's much easier than doing it with men. Sometimes people have like a. A resistance to it because they will often pedestalize men. And you don't need to do that, girl. All of these men are like little boys.
I wish I wasn't like.
Being funny. It's so true. Men are very sensitive. But for some reason, I think a lot of women think that, oh my God, they are these creatures that I don't get. I don't understand them. If you think about them as little boys, girl, you'll be able to rock them out. I always say, you know that teenage cousin that you like are like, oh my God, boy, you're so lame. But you're my cousin, so I love you. That's how I need you to think about these men.