Anwar White argues that cheating is almost never about the betrayed partner. Instead, it stems from the cheater's own struggles: low self-worth, job loss, illness, or stress. Infidelity becomes a way to feel in control when life falls apart.
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Ashley said how to move on after being cheated on. Great question.
Oh, my God. I think I lost my space. Y' all starting to get a little active in here, I see. Here's the thing. I was just talking to a. A very famous madam.
And she. I think she's gonna be on my podcast. And. And she was telling me that the one thing that she wanted people to learn in our recording of my podcast called the GetyourGuy Coaching Podcast, by the way, is that cheating is when a man cheats, it's rarely about the woman. Like, 95% of the time, it's not about the woman. But I think so many of us do make it about the woman, about us. And that's the thing that keeps us down. You got to understand that most of these men often will cheat when they feel really shitty about themselves, when they feel really shitty about themselves. When they are underemployed or unemployed, they will probably cheat to make themselves feel like a man. When they are.
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They will cheat. If they are stressed, they will cheat so that they can feel really good about themselves. They can sex and cheating is almost like a level of control that they're trying to gain when they don't have control in their own lives.
It's rarely about you. And I think it's important to. To understand, oh, he's feeling really low about himself. That's why he felt like he needed to do that. But that's not the kind of man that I want to be with. My future husband doesn't solve his own problems that way. Just doing that is super important. Okay. Someone said, do a celebrity D report. I kind of did one in my last video, so. But I was a little scared because I think that they're going to get me. Girl, I'm scared.