A short YouTube monologue (speaker response) addressing how a 50-year-old Black nurse might approach dating. The speaker advises the asker to balance masculine/feminine energies—arguing nurses often operate in masculine, task-oriented modes—and to embrace feminine energy to attract masculine partners. The speaker also notes that men in their 50s may become more nurturing as testosterone declines and emphasizes the importance of health for shared retirement and travel plans.
Djeney said, how to navigate dating world as a 50 year old black nurse. Well.
You said two major things there. 50 and nurse. Yeah, and I think I'll do a video about this. But oftentimes if you're a nurse, even though it's like a very nurturing career, you're censoring other people. So you probably need to learn how to center yourself. And, and as a nurse, you actually have to be very much in your masculine energy. So there's probably some opportunity to be, to learn how to be more in your feminine energy so that you can attract more truly masculine men and then 50 year olds. I think sometimes we have to understand that like at 50 you are like professionally and career wise, very much like your testosterone is like really pumping. But the thing about guys at that age is that the energies kind of switch, right? That's why like men in their 50s and 60s, they'll start getting into gardening, they'll start getting into like pets because they're, they're, the testosterone is decreasing, so they're becoming more nurturing. So one thing that I want to offer to you is make sure that like, you like, don't write off those guys that are like, not as hardcore.
And then two, at that age, men are looking for very healthy women, right? Because I'm looking to retire with somebody and travel with somebody. So you got to be healthy to do that, girl.