A short YouTube monologue (uploaded April 4, 2024 by Anwar White) advising plus-size women on dating. The speaker emphasizes self-love, setting firm boundaries, and being wary of certain behaviors—notably men who comment on a woman's body or who are also plus-size/curvy and may act possessively or toxically.
Vanessa said dating as a plus size, no lipo girl, no cosmetic surgery girl. Well.
I guess that's an accomplishment. I guess a lot of girls are getting the lipo these days and the cosmetic surgery, which is totally fine.
I always say that you gotta love the people that are loving you.
And so you know, and you already know that, that there are certain guys that will come for you, right?
I often say a lot of times the guys that are bigger, like curvier, plus size guys are often the most toxic for plus sized girls. The other thing that you want to be aware of is any of the guys that say anything about your body. This is different for a plus sized girl than some other girl because he might say, oh, you know, you're so beautiful. I love, you know, you know, I love how curvy you are in that dress. But for you it's different, right? And I'm not. That's, this is no shade. I'm not coming for you. The experience is that they will think that they have potentially more ownership of your body because it is curvier, but they don't. So that's why our boundaries have to be in place, honey. In place.
