Anwar White walks through how to reject someone safely. Text or call instead of in person, keep it brief and direct, and use a script like: "I'm not feeling a connection anymore, but I want to wish you the best of luck."
Adipop said. Tips on Gently Rejecting men well, I need you to understand something. I need you to understand that men take rejection differently than women do. You're thinking that you telling him that you are not feeling it is going to be the end of his world. Or that he's going to somehow freak the hell out. First of all, if you are feeling in danger with this guy, then you're making the right decision.
I would, I would recommend doing it via text or over the phone. If you are in public, if you are person to person, then this app needs to happen like in a public location.
Very short, direct and to the point. Hey, it's been great getting to know you. I'm not feeling a connection anymore, but I want to wish you the best of luck.
That's it. You have to understand this. If you're not feeling it, a man wants to know so he doesn't have to waste his time, energy or money trying to court you. So the earlier the better. 90% of the time you know what he's gonna say. Thanks so much. Have a good one. You think he's gonna be devastated because someone rejected you back in the day and you were devastated. So now you're thinking that everyone is going to have the same reaction that you had to to your worst rejection and that's not the case.